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By *urious1973 OP   Man 1 week ago

angus

Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts

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By *hortieWoman 1 week ago

Northampton

I sometimes chat to guys in their 20s. Is that too young?? You know what, I couldn't give a shit about others opinions on who I want in between my legs 😊

Young women into older guys is far from rare.. I should know.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 1 week ago

Reading

A bit creepy to be honest.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 1 week ago

SW1A1AA

Dont worry what others think, just concentrate on you. It's nobody else's business

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By *veragecouple2000Couple 1 week ago

South Wales


"Dont worry what others think, just concentrate on you. It's nobody else's business"

I agree with this xx 😘

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By *urious1973 OP   Man 1 week ago

angus

Says she’s into older but I think they might be fake x

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By *hortieWoman 1 week ago

Northampton


"Says she’s into older but I think they might be fake x"

I'm sure she'll (cough) will be happy to pop on cam in the chatrooms on here and put your mind at rest 👍😁

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 1 week ago

Carlisle usually

I find it weird.

I'm nearly forty. I can't imagine anything I'd have in common with a twenty year old. We're in completely different stages of life and experience. I'd feel wrong even considering boning someone half my age.

I suppose if all parties are aware of what the actual gains from such a coupling are and are happy with that kind of often transactional set up, it's whatever.

But I wouldn't touch it with a bargepole personally 💜

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By *urious1973 OP   Man 1 week ago

angus


"Says she’s into older but I think they might be fake x

I'm sure she'll (cough) will be happy to pop on cam in the chatrooms on here and put your mind at rest 👍😁"

Do you not have to be silver site member to get access to cams now x

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By *hortieWoman 1 week ago

Northampton


"Says she’s into older but I think they might be fake x

I'm sure she'll (cough) will be happy to pop on cam in the chatrooms on here and put your mind at rest 👍😁

Do you not have to be silver site member to get access to cams now x"

I've seen fab rolled back that change very recently to allow longer standing members to not require ss. How long 'long standing' is tho, I've no idea.

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By *oldmilkMan 1 week ago

In trouble, apparently…

If something seems too good to be true (eg a young attractive woman speaking with someone middle aged and being fruity), then it’s more than likely a fake profile.

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By *oastal1968Man 1 week ago

London/Stafford

The last place to come to ask for advice is a forum full of pervs! 😂

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By *rTeeth777Man 1 week ago

d

Are you planning on having a full-blown relationship with them or just sex?

If sex Enjoy the age difference vibe (and different shape sizes and colour too)

My record is 23yr older (when I was younger) and 37yrs younger this year)

For a relationship is more difficult because your reference points are completely different

If somebody is younger than you, they won’t remember the movies and music that you love and also younger women are likely to want to have a family at some point (even if they say not) are you prepared to become a father in your 50s 60s or 70s?

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By *ersatilefoxMan 1 week ago

Notts


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts "

To be honest you are both consenting adults, so as long as you're both ok with it I see no problem. I was seeing a 30 year old when I was 65. Some people wont meet others who are younger than their kids, and that's fair enough, it's their option.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man 1 week ago

angus

not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age

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By *ellatioNelsonMan 1 week ago

london

If she is real then she's an adult, she can vote and make her own decisions, ignore what others say and see how it goes. I hate this "it's creepy" bullshit, she's an adult, what adults do between themselves is their business and no one else's.

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By *viatrixCouple 1 week ago

Gatwick

One of my friends on here I started chatting to when he was 20 and I 46. We meet up for coffee/drinks occasionally. I was a bit self conscious about the age gap, he was never worried. 🤷‍♀️

With everyone, regardless of age, as mentioned before, a quick videocall solves the problem.

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By *froVybesMan 1 week ago

Essex

Ask for her ID, just to be sure haha

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By *riel13Woman 1 week ago

Northampton

Don't worry about what others think, only your and the other person's opinion should matter

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By *lirtyFilthWoman 1 week ago

Troublesville suburb of Barnstaple

I don’t think the age difference is too much if both parties are happy with it. It is not for others to decide. You have to be comfortable with it though.

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By *dinburghWomanWoman 1 week ago

Edinburgh

It doesn’t concern anyone except the two of you

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By *oldmilkMan 1 week ago

In trouble, apparently…

Just make sure she’s real.

Phone calls/video chats etc.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man 1 week ago

angus

not photo verified but silver site supporter and meet verified apparantley

havent exchanged face pics yet x

body pics look a bit sus

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By *lirtyFilthWoman 1 week ago

Troublesville suburb of Barnstaple


"not photo verified but silver site supporter and meet verified apparantley

havent exchanged face pics yet x

body pics look a bit sus"

Social first then if you’re comfortable. Public place. Protect yourself.

Any advice you would give to a woman, give to yourself also.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man 1 week ago

angus


"not photo verified but silver site supporter and meet verified apparantley

havent exchanged face pics yet x

body pics look a bit sus

Social first then if you’re comfortable. Public place. Protect yourself.

Any advice you would give to a woman, give to yourself also. "

just not sure about attaching my face pic yet

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By *riel13Woman 1 week ago

Northampton


"not photo verified but silver site supporter and meet verified apparantley

havent exchanged face pics yet x

body pics look a bit sus

Social first then if you’re comfortable. Public place. Protect yourself.

Any advice you would give to a woman, give to yourself also.

just not sure about attaching my face pic yet "

Avoid sex talk... It's a great filter

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By *lyaWoman 1 week ago

west midlands


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts "

I was just about to say that. Personally, for me it's generation rather than age that matters. It's about shared experiences and additionally, on here I'm a bit fed up with younger men asking me to "teach them" But yes, if someone very much younger came on to me I'd be wondering.. is this exploitation and be wary.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple 1 week ago

South East


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts "

For me personally yeah but each to their own

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By *hamallamadingdongMan 1 week ago

London

It depends on your preferences. You are both adults. Stay safe.

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By *issBellaWoman 1 week ago

Town

The fact that you're asking suggests to me that you're unsure. I wouldnt approve, but its your life and your decision.

As long as you are both happy and on the same page 🤷‍♀️ that niggle of doubt is there for a reason though, maybe explore why before deciding your next move.

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By *eijuWoman 1 week ago

Manchester

i think so, but each to their own

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By *xSirenaxxWoman 1 week ago

Gloucestershire

Theoretically both consenting adults. Personally, at 52 I'd be more interested in finding someone who remembers the same TV shows than someone young enough to be my child that is a bit ick for me.

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By *reya73Woman 1 week ago

Whitley Bay


"not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age "

This is what puts me off. My son is 20. So I'm just not attracted to people that age. You must have your filters set though?? Already open to the idea..so why ask?

Also, there's a level of maturity which isn't there for me. I definitely wasn't making choices at that age that were particularly healthy.

Having said that .. perhaps she is fed up with the immaturity of her peers and is hoping for a better experience with an older guy.

It's down to you and her .. how would you feel if it was your daughter putting herself in that position?

You will know if she is mature enough and that you're not taking advantage etc .. use your 50 something year old experience, knowledge and instinct.

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By *reya73Woman 1 week ago

Whitley Bay

Also also.. if in doubt .. do nowt.

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By *sm265Woman 1 week ago

Perthshire


"not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age "

What would you think if your daughters were chatting to someone your age?

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By *otoriouslyaddictiveMan 1 week ago

here

26 here and im either to young or too ugly snd I don’t particularly want the answer to which one 😂😂😂

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By *okingham WillMan 1 week ago

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One of my most memorable nights in a swing club was when I got talking to a similar age lass as myself about Mister Ben and Bod.

An hour later my head was between her thighs.

For me having no or very few cultural frames of reference in common with someone would be a bit of a blocker I think.

So too young for me. But you do you.

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By *sm265Woman 1 week ago

Perthshire


"One of my most memorable nights in a swing club was when I got talking to a similar age lass as myself about Mister Ben and Bod.

An hour later my head was between her thighs.

For me having no or very few cultural frames of reference in common with someone would be a bit of a blocker I think.

So too young for me. But you do you."

Used to love Bod. Was always a bit disappointed with Mr Ben's costume choices.

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By *okingham WillMan 1 week ago

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"One of my most memorable nights in a swing club was when I got talking to a similar age lass as myself about Mister Ben and Bod.

An hour later my head was between her thighs.

For me having no or very few cultural frames of reference in common with someone would be a bit of a blocker I think.

So too young for me. But you do you.

Used to love Bod. Was always a bit disappointed with Mr Ben's costume choices."

See OP? Give it an hour and my head will be between her thighs!

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By *ssexPaul50Man 1 week ago

colchester

I’ve always gone with the idea of not going with anyone younger than my daughter (obviously when she became 18) but she is 30 years old now so I may have to re-think my position - but I can’t even get lucky with my own age group here on FAB, so I doubt trying younger would help 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan 1 week ago

cockwelwyn

I talk to people all ages dosent mean I want too meet them or they want too meet me x also don’t need to see a pic x they are all photo verified x sometimes it’s just a random chat about anything or advice given or received x

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By *sm265Woman 1 week ago

Perthshire


"One of my most memorable nights in a swing club was when I got talking to a similar age lass as myself about Mister Ben and Bod.

An hour later my head was between her thighs.

For me having no or very few cultural frames of reference in common with someone would be a bit of a blocker I think.

So too young for me. But you do you.

Used to love Bod. Was always a bit disappointed with Mr Ben's costume choices.

See OP? Give it an hour and my head will be between her thighs! "

Only if we move on to Trumpton, Button Moon and Bagpuss!

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By *oots1234Man 1 week ago

abergavenny

O I don’t know it was 30 years difference with me xxxx

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By *okingham WillMan 1 week ago

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"One of my most memorable nights in a swing club was when I got talking to a similar age lass as myself about Mister Ben and Bod.

An hour later my head was between her thighs.

For me having no or very few cultural frames of reference in common with someone would be a bit of a blocker I think.

So too young for me. But you do you.

Used to love Bod. Was always a bit disappointed with Mr Ben's costume choices.

See OP? Give it an hour and my head will be between her thighs!

Only if we move on to Trumpton, Button Moon and Bagpuss! "

I think this forms some sort of legally binding contract now. Excellent.

In our post-coital glow we can even touch on Roobarb and Captain Pugwash

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By *irthandMirthMan 1 week ago

Essex ++


"not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age

What would you think if your daughters were chatting to someone your age? "

My 25 year old daughter is good friends with an older couple with the man about my age and moreover they go on spiritual breaks/holidays with lots of others in a group. I've got my suspicions these spiritual breaks involve get rather frisky. Can't say I want to think about it very much but at 25 she is free to do as she wishes.

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By *otwifecouple1004Couple 1 week ago

Cardiff

If you are asking the question you are already dealing with your insecurities about it.

If you have to ask the question its clear to see you are not comfortable with it.

Doesn't matter about others opinions. Its you and the other party that have to live with it not the rest of the world.

Unless its under 18s of course

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By *actile TensionMan 1 week ago

Sussex

If a 20yo was cracking onto me I'd kinda feel it was my duty to try talk her out of the idea

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By *olo180Man 1 week ago

Greater London


"A bit creepy to be honest."

Would you say that if it was a woman talking to a guy?

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By *SFlameMan 1 week ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts "

Yes, really it is. Rule of thumb is half your age plus 7.

So a 50yo, half is 25, plus 7 means lowest is 32.

28yo, half is 14 plus 7 is 21.

It falls apart when people are old, I mean 80yo is 47...

Look, outside of this if you find love then okay but in general.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 1 week ago

Niche


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts "

Not if you're 20

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 1 week ago

Niche

Your profile says 52

In fab that could mean 62 but even if 52 is real.

You need to give your head a wobble.

Legal doesn't make it right, wise or morally sound.

What exactly attracts you to someone so much less experienced and worldly wise?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman 1 week ago

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"not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age "

That’s the bit I find quite odd.

I think if you have to ask if something is wrong, it’s because you already know that it is.

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By *olds CoupleCouple 1 week ago

Louth Lincolnshire


"If she is real then she's an adult, she can vote and make her own decisions, ignore what others say and see how it goes. I hate this "it's creepy" bullshit, she's an adult, what adults do between themselves is their business and no one else's."

Exactly this.

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By *ugar dayMan 1 week ago

London

she will probably ask you to "spoil her" which is code word for her being a h**k*r...

sorry to burst your bubble.

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By *ralExpert79Man 1 week ago

Newquay

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By *lackadderMan 1 week ago

Eastbourne

Younger women talk to me. Women my age don’t. What’s a chap to do?

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By *olo180Man 1 week ago

Greater London


"Your profile says 52

In fab that could mean 62 but even if 52 is real.

You need to give your head a wobble.

Legal doesn't make it right, wise or morally sound.

What exactly attracts you to someone so much less experienced and worldly wise?"

Why does he need to give his head a wobble? Why is it morally wrong for a 20 year old to have sex with a 50 year old if both parties consent and are attracted to each other?

Get off your moral high horse!

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By *olo180Man 1 week ago

Greater London


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts

Yes, really it is. Rule of thumb is half your age plus 7.

So a 50yo, half is 25, plus 7 means lowest is 32.

28yo, half is 14 plus 7 is 21.

It falls apart when people are old, I mean 80yo is 47...

Look, outside of this if you find love then okay but in general.

"

What a pile of of 💩

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By *agneto.Man 1 week ago

Bham

As long as they’re legal and you’re both ok with it then I think it’s fine. You get some very mature 20s and some very immature 20s. As long as you’re on the same vibe.

In real life I have some younger friends who I’d say is an old soul and we get on great.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 1 week ago

SW1A1AA

Ive just come back to this thread and oh how i laughed, i already said what I thought and in short terms dont give a fuck what others think its nothing to do with anyone else its your life

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By *D IrishMan 1 week ago

Tipp/Dublin

Go for it and enjoy the experience. I've certainly grown to like ladies in their 20's as I've gone through my 40's.

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By *avyBlueManMan 1 week ago

St Trinian's Academy


"Dont worry what others think, just concentrate on you. It's nobody else's business"

I agree with you Diamondsmiles.

If it floats your boat, start rowing.

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By *eliWoman 1 week ago

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The likelihood is you're not chatting to a real twenty year old woman.

Men are quite penis led and daft.

Those are my thoughts, thank you for this space to share them.

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By *dstefiMan 1 week ago

Solihull

I have a self-imposed rule that I usually stick to, of not getting involved with anyone younger than my oldest kid, which generally means no under-35s.

Aside from the eww factor, I just find too many differences in culture and upbringing and life experience. Basically I probably sound like an old fart whenever I start rattling on about how different things were in my youth (no internet or mobile phones, playing outside and far less parental oversight of the shit we got up to etc)

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By *athomMan 1 week ago

South Coast

What do you find to chat about ?

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By *WB85Man 1 week ago

Staffordshire

It's to young for my own preferences, but for some it would be fine I'm sure.

My mind is like if I could have legally created them, its too young.

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By *dstefiMan 1 week ago

Solihull


"What do you find to chat about ?"

You asking me? Loads, if it's someone close to me generationally.

I mean I can chat for England anyway and probably would get on just as well with someone a lot younger, but there'd still be differences, some of which I'd be uncomfortable with like if they spoke in txtspk or constantly referred to memes or something

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By *athomMan 1 week ago

South Coast


"What do you find to chat about ?

You asking me? Loads, if it's someone close to me generationally.

I mean I can chat for England anyway and probably would get on just as well with someone a lot younger, but there'd still be differences, some of which I'd be uncomfortable with like if they spoke in txtspk or constantly referred to memes or something "

😂 Sorry , it was meant for OP Mr Chattetbox forgot the quote button.

Just reminds me of when I was trying to keep up with my kids , It was a different world and language.

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By *1c4yMan 1 week ago

stourbridge

Each to their own.

Everyone has their own likes / dislikes.

I've noticed clear double standard in how some people comment about age-gap relationships compared to other groups being discussed in the forum.

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By *earditallWoman 1 week ago

Lancaster

I personally wouldn't want to chat to someone so young as have older kids so would find it odd.

But hey 20 is over the age of consent and if you're enjoying it then that's your choice,hopefully they aren't fake and are what they seem to be.

It only really matters what you think.

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By *eardedsparkyMan 1 week ago

Llandudno

I’m 42 and I wouldn’t feel comfortable talking to someone that young.

But it’s all legal so as long as you both consent that’s all that really matters

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By *wodoswingCouple 1 week ago

swindon

As long as they are over the age of consent then surely there is no problem in chatting or meeting.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple 1 week ago

Round the bend


"What do you find to chat about ?"

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳"

No way!!!!!

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By *arrenhertsmanMan 1 week ago

Hatfield


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

No way!!!!!"

And they think Hong King Phooey is a local Chinese restaurant……

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By *viatrixCouple 1 week ago

Gatwick


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳"

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

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By *kphooey43Man 1 week ago

Barnet


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

No way!!!!!

And they think Hong King Phooey is a local Chinese restaurant…… "

Oooii, no calling out or abuse of other Forum users. REPORTED!😜🤪

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about! "

Why not just say hand of god

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By *kphooey43Man 1 week ago

Barnet


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

Why not just say hand of god "

Because she is from South America.

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

Why not just say hand of god

Because she is from South America."

👌

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple 1 week ago

Round the bend


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

No way!!!!!

And they think Hong King Phooey is a local Chinese restaurant……

Oooii, no calling out or abuse of other Forum users. REPORTED!😜🤪"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *viatrixCouple 1 week ago

Gatwick


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

Why not just say hand of god

Because she is from South America."

I’m not actually- I am from North America

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne

He is the no1 super guy

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

Why not just say hand of god

Because she is from South America.

I’m not actually- I am from North America "

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By *viatrixCouple 1 week ago

Gatwick


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

Why not just say hand of god "

Haha of course the name in English was discussed, but I am also teaching a bit of Spanish… some of us old women have our uses! 👵🏻

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

I’ve discussed Maradona’s “La Mano de Dios” in Mexico ‘86 with my partner…. he knows about it of course, bit…

He was a year old. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

And I was only 11 and in primary school in fairness

Thankfully there is much more common ground to talk about!

Why not just say hand of god

Haha of course the name in English was discussed, but I am also teaching a bit of Spanish… some of us old women have our uses! 👵🏻 "

Looking at you i second that

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By *viatrixCouple 1 week ago

Gatwick


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

No way!!!!!

And they think Hong King Phooey is a local Chinese restaurant……

Oooii, no calling out or abuse of other Forum users. REPORTED!😜🤪

🤣🤣🤣"

To be fair I am 53 and I didn’t know who Hong Kong Phooey was until i got to this country at age 29…

Same with Dangermouse.

GOOD GRIEF, PENFOLD!

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By *omsarah73Couple 1 week ago

Suffolk

I believe everyone is on here for the same thing.

So I would say no.

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By *ifelover999Man 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"What do you find to chat about ?

This is a good question. We met someone in their late 20s once, against my better judgement. He didn't know who Sooty was. Never again. 😳

No way!!!!!

And they think Hong King Phooey is a local Chinese restaurant……

Oooii, no calling out or abuse of other Forum users. REPORTED!😜🤪

🤣🤣🤣

To be fair I am 53 and I didn’t know who Hong Kong Phooey was until i got to this country at age 29…

Same with Dangermouse.

GOOD GRIEF, PENFOLD! "

😱😱😱😱😱😱

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS 1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away

I don't understand why some are saying it's creepy.

Is it creepy if a 52yr old woman has sex with a 20yr old man?

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By *aomilatteCouple 1 week ago

Midlands


"Chatting to a 20 year old is that too young

What’s people’s thoughts "

Ask to speak to "her" on the phone and see what "she" says. "She" could even withhold "her" number.

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By *issBellaWoman 1 week ago

Town


"I don't understand why some are saying it's creepy.

Is it creepy if a 52yr old woman has sex with a 20yr old man?"

I'm 34 and couldnt imagine seeing a 20 year old. But like I said to the OP, it's not my life or decision in regards to a 52 year old woman having sex with a 20 year old man either 🤷‍♀️

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By *ornyscot123Man 1 week ago

birmingham

It’s hard on here to find people a similar age to me, so majority of my conversations happen with older couples and women

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By *rTeeth777Man 1 week ago

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By *rTeeth777Man 1 week ago

d

Bear in mind I’m a sad old pervert who lost his virginity in 1981 when you read the following

I’ve had sex with ladies born in every decade from 1941-2005

Does that count?

Not sure I’d want long term relationship with someone who doesn’t het my movie and music references tho!

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By *ungandMan 1 week ago

daveyhulme

I’m okay chatting with younger specially at my age 😂 everyone is younger.

When I was in my 40s my gf was 25 so I’m always happy with the age difference

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By *lackadderMan 1 week ago

Eastbourne

I think back to when I was 20. Would I have slept with a 60 year old woman? If she was hot, hell yes ( and I’m not talking about the menopause).

When I was 21 I did have an older girlfriend for a while, by 10 years only though..

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By *E_LadMan 1 week ago

Newcastle

Age difference doesn't bother me, in fact I quite like older

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By *lackadderMan 1 week ago

Eastbourne

I was asked only this morning if I meet younger? I pointed out that most women on fab are younger than me….

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By *ssexlad36!Man 1 week ago

Hullbridge, Essex

I do like an age gap, im much more attracted to older women!

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By *iver78Man 1 week ago

barton upon humber

I have a a rule I wont meet anyone younger than my oldest so as ( to me ) it feels weird. But ill happily chat to anyone. I finf younger women can be quite funny and tend to be quite chilled

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By *eau2026Man 1 week ago

Runcorn

No it’s not, but most men and I include myself are conscious about our age, don’t why but we are here.

A lot of young women are attracted to older men and it’s not just because they have daddy issues there’s lots of different reasons, I had a relationship with a 24 year old woman, she nearly killed me but it was a great relationship

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By *luttTV/TS 1 week ago

Duns


"If somebody is younger than you, they won’t remember the movies and music that you love"

I’ve never understood that argument - most of my favourite music is from before I was born, and most of my favourite films I was too young to have watched when they were originally released.

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By *evergiveupMan 1 week ago

derbyshire

Golden rule for me - noone younger than my eldest child

And no -- im not Mick Jagger

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By *akedchef1000Man 1 week ago

Cardiff

Older the better 👌🏽

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By *lwaysupforfun37Man 1 week ago

huntingdon

Deffo older the better 👌🔥

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 1 week ago

Niche

It's funny how when you ask an older man/woman what they find so attractive about a person who's 18-20ish there's crickets.

It's not about the gap it's the actual age.

If the 'younger' person is 30+ dating a 60+ then it's a different scenario.

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By *j NorthMan 1 week ago

Wakey

10 years older or younger than me is my preference. So mid 30s to mid 50s

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By *ornyguy666Man 1 week ago

Nottingham

Age just a number long as is legal

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By *carlettsWoman 1 week ago

Somewhere out there


"not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age "

Could be one of your daughter! Just saying. Especially if you haven't checked who they are or even if they are indeed a female.

Each to their own, for me personally I wouldn't go for someone that young as I have friends whose sons are that age and just makes me cringe thinking about it.

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By *ocialablechapMan 1 week ago

Paphos and also SW UK

You keep yourself in shape for your age.

If you are just after a quick shag with a 20 something for story value then great.

As for a 'relationship' then you need to think.

Being sceptical, like many others, assume it some old sad bloke who's wanking off on the idea of playing games, until proven otherwise.

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By *elboy1978Man 1 week ago

Jarrow

It’s ok

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By *obinhhhood6Man 1 week ago

Nottingham

Cant beat a Mrs Robinson 😁

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan 1 week ago

Gloucestershire

So come on OP, update us on the situation?

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By *rHotNottsMan 1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I sometimes chat to guys in their 20s. Is that too young?? You know what, I couldn't give a shit about others opinions on who I want in between my legs 😊

Young women into older guys is far from rare.. I should know. "

Yep.

My opinion OP is I don't care what you or or other do , or think of what I do.

I meet women in their 20s usually over 25 but not always , I have kids older than that.No I find that weird....because I'm not a wierdo ! Those that do find it wierd have the issues IMO, why are they thinking about their own children when meeting others for sex 🤔

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By *addy bareMan 1 week ago

southend

If there is chemistry and you like each other, what's the problem.

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By *ominic 300Man 1 week ago

isle of Wight

Love older than me...

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By *dithPiafDidItBetterCouple 1 week ago

Poole

For us age is not an issue . When you can get married still at 16 with parents permission , or a quick trip to Scotland it puts things into perspective I think . If the partner is willing etc then it’s nobody else’s business . But it seems people are more worried about what others might think . Which is pretty daft to me .

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By *eorgesdad69Man 1 week ago

Long Eaton

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By *eorgesdad69Man 1 week ago

Long Eaton

I had a 19 year old lover when I was 65, he stayed as my lover for 2 years 🤪🥰

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By *nlyliveonce69Man 1 week ago

carlisle

It a personal choice . But personally I find it creepy but that's my opinion.

My guide is i would not want go down to my children's age there in very early 30s.

I always say half your age plus 7 year

Ie a 50 year old partner 32 or more

60 year old 37 or more

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By *parkle1974Woman 1 week ago

Garden of Eden

If it's an ego boost you're after go for it....because why else would you be interested in someone over 30 years younger

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By *aven.Woman 1 week ago

no

Why is it creepy? They are both consenting adults.

I say go for it op.

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By *heron ShanMan 1 week ago

Durham

Its more the actual age then the age gap, The brain doesn't fully develop until around 25.

After this age if you are comfortable and you both consenting adults, that is between both of you.

Its up to you OP at the end of the day.

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By *onkers4UMan 1 week ago

Ely

I was chatting to someone recently who said they were 40. They sent several unsolicited pictures. I checked online (tineye.com) and found they were taken off a porn site from about 10 years ago. When confronted, they deleted their profile (which was only a few days old - another red flag).

But if she proves to be real, then as others have said, if she's legal then go for it - I certainly would.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman 1 week ago

Sunderland

As long as you and the other person are happy don't care what others think

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By *hmy51Man 1 week ago

newcastle

Age means fuck all as long as it's all legal who cares look at Richard Gere dating a 28 year old and he is 76

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By *ooking4friends74Couple 1 week ago

Guisborough

I would love a 19 year old man to find me attractive and seduce me

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By *ohnnyangerMan 1 week ago

Dorking

I happily got with my late husband when I was 19 and he was 56. It lasted 16 years, so it's not all that bad. Adults can make whatever informed choices they wanted - he never forced himself on me. I chased him a whole lot more

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By *hunkymonkey81Man 1 week ago

Sheffield

I love younger females

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By *rHotNottsMan 1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"It a personal choice . But personally I find it creepy but that's my opinion.

My guide is i would not want go down to my children's age there in very early 30s.

I always say half your age plus 7 year

Ie a 50 year old partner 32 or more

60 year old 37 or more "

I like how mathematics crept into your sexual chemistry criteria there, I find that creepy, but not in a gross way , just a "cross the street" type of creepy

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By *rHotNottsMan 1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"The brain doesn't fully develop until around 25.

"

There are plenty of people on here way older than 25 whose brains haven't developed yet, and sadly never will. Should they be banned from fucking?

Maybe the government should issue a certificate - brain has developed okay / ok to have sex now ?

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By *hickthighs-26Woman 1 week ago

the land of vagina

You do you OP as long as its legal and consensual then go for it

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By *lackadderMan 1 week ago

Eastbourne


"If it's an ego boost you're after go for it....because why else would you be interested in someone over 30 years younger "

The only women that seem interested in me at sixty are mostly 30-50ish, with the occasional younger ..

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By *weetiepie99Woman 1 week ago

cardiff

Yea i think it is...i wouldnt look twice at a 20 year old, its like what on earth would we have in common, i just wouldnt be attracted to someone that age.

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By *007ManMan 1 week ago

Worthing

Cam or it's probably a man.

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By *uicy_peach79Woman 1 week ago

Edinburgh


"not a relationship just sex but i have daughters about her age "

See when your children around the same age as a potential play friend for me it's a no go but that's just me my morals are different to others

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By *ildbillkidMan 1 week ago

where the road goes on forever

"hey nineteen" steely dan , she don't know aretha franklin she don't know the queen of soul "

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By *ittynzWoman 1 week ago

Richmond

I was always 19 yrs older and 10 younger then I meet someone early 30s who was older sole and someone in there late 60s younger sole so now I chat and just see where is goes

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By *etSeekerMan 1 week ago

Tayside

I prefer older women, but both consenting is fine. No harm done.

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By *issy LanaTV/TS 1 week ago

Slough


"A bit creepy to be honest."

"The absolute minimum age for recruitment and casting for dancers at Stringfellows is 18 years old."

Just saying...!

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By *ildbillkidMan 1 week ago

where the road goes on forever

How can you relate? With nothing in common,

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By *parkle1974Woman 1 week ago

Garden of Eden


"How can you relate? With nothing in common, "

Its an ego boost for him.....don't need to relate if it's just sex

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By *aven.Woman 1 week ago

no


"How can you relate? With nothing in common, "

You have your filters set to age 18...why if you can't relate to them with nothing in common?

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By *aven.Woman 1 week ago

no

Some salty people on here!

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS 1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away

You are both consenting adults OP.

So what you want to do.

When I was 22 a 61yr old fucked me for the first time.

Was he a creep? Nope, was an absolute gentleman and the sex for the next few months was awesome 😋

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By *octor ProdMan 1 week ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

I couldn't with anyone young enough to be my daughter. So I have a 10 year younger limit; 16 years younger at at a push.

Not my thing

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By *ildbillkidMan 1 week ago

where the road goes on forever


"How can you relate? With nothing in common,

You have your filters set to age 18...why if you can't relate to them with nothing in common?"

I will change them

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By *eliWoman 1 week ago

.

Any updates OP?

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By *issy LanaTV/TS 1 week ago

Slough

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By *issy LanaTV/TS 1 week ago

Slough

OP, I think I was 20 years of age when I first popped my cherry. It was to a lady who was at least 20-30 years older than me. We met at a bus stop and she took me back to hers, the sex was incredibly delicious.

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