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By *aven. OP Woman 3 days ago
no |
On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?
Here and normal real life world places
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Neither I have a resting bitch face 99% of the time |
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In personal 5 in work a 10 cause everyone’s comes to me to get their shite done. |
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"Hello i would iam a 10 " I've been told im unapproachable...🤭 must be all the giggling im doing.
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I'd like to think I give off an approachable vibe but I don't think I'd be someone people would approach if that makes any sense at all 😅 |
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"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?
Here and normal real life world places
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Depends really, professionally very as I have to be. I get approached by ladies a lot when shopping to get something down from the top shelve for them, so possibly that means I’m approachable.
In a club as a couple, we don’t get approached to often by men but we also give of a vibe that we’re not looking to be approached, if that makes sense. |
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I don’t really know. I think I have one of those scary faces. But, it’s only when people get to know me, they realise the face doesn’t match the personality.
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We’d like to think 10 but yet club meets prove us to be a 2 x |
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Sadly not. Which is a shame because im really nice 🙂 |
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By *eyeYCouple 3 days ago
Nr Leicester |
A definite 10, however the way we're approached may decrease the figure.. 🤔🤷🤣😘 |
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I am. Which is a shame cos I’m orrible. |
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Id say 9. Im the one that gets all the weirdos coming up and chatting to me |
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"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?
Here and normal real life world places
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100% a 10 |
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A solid 9.5 both on here and in person in terms of being approachable I’d say am.
However, I tend to do more of the approaching myself rather than being approached by others 🤷🏾♂️ |
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Almost 10 - very approachable, and love chatting not just about sex but other vanilla stuff too -because if that I made some good friends over the years. |
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On here a 9. I think I'm pretty approachable and welcoming, I don't think I'm intimidating at all.
At work a 10. It gets commented how approachable I am, sometimes to my detriment where people approach me for things.
Other real life a 5. I'm sometimes grumpy and I think I can sometimes give off a 'please don't talk to me' vibe. But then some people do talk to me randomly so I must be partially approachable. |
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"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?
Here and normal real life world places
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I'm a 10 (imo).
Whether you want to stay there is another thing.  |
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9, everyone and anyone comes up to me in all situations and I’m always smiley and friendly. Yesterday a little girl was telling me about how much fun she had had at the beach in the q for McDonalds. Yesterday in Lidl a lady came up to me and said you always wear so pretty dresses ( she works there and we regulars ) got to love a bit of shein!
I will talk and be kind to everyone and anyone and I’ve made so many friends in night club toilets that I’m still friends with to this day! My fella is the opposite he’s grumpy old man but once you get to know him he’s friendly I think if you smile at people it instantly breaks the barriers and invites them to talk |
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Very - 100%.
Have a fuck off face though ..... and then .. If I don't like someone 0% and i'd follow it up with a verbal fuck off just to force it home.
But in reality ..... 100% 10 out of 10.
I won't do your bidding though if I think it's your responsibility |
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
Women tend to talk to me , men not so much !? So not sure 🫤
And I dont mean that in a flash way as im irrestible before I get abuse 🤣 I mean in general |
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I can make myself very approachable in real life by wearing my glasses and smiling. I can also make myself very unapproachable if I put the pissed off face on. I generally smile and wear my glasses.
On here I get approached quite a bit so I would say that was a positive. |
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"Women tend to talk to me , men not so much !? So not sure 🫤
And I dont mean that in a flash way as im irrestible before I get abuse 🤣 I mean in general "
I think you're irresistible |
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I would say a 2 they see a big girl and run |
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I've been told I'm too approachable and a flirt. But never pick up on the reaction. A friend keeps telling me who she thinks is attracted to me. I never see it. |
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I think I am approachable but I guess my resting bitch face says otherwise |
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By *ABJCouple 3 days ago
South Wales |
Male half - about a 3 or 4. I’m naturally antisocial. I don’t mean to offend but I do have RBF
Female half - easily 10. She attracts people on he r personality alone never mind just her looks |
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Non approachable Apperently I look like I wanna fight any man woman or child 🤣 I’m happy as pig in shit but my face don’t register that Apperently |
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I'd like to think so but we never seem to get approached at club nights 🤷🏼 not quite sure what we are doing wrong!
In real life definitely get approached more but usually when I'm in Tesco and someone asks me to get something off a high shelf 🤣! Usually not for anything exciting! |
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1 I am mean horrible , aggressive and thoroughly unpleasant , so totally unapproachable.
Not bad that decent 8/10! Wish me luck all! |
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2.
I'm generally considered intimidating by the uninitiated 💜 |
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I’m probably a 5.
I don’t seek it out but am nonetheless courteous enough if some gregarious bugger has the brazen audacity to attempt to initiate conversation with me in public.
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I purposefully put a "free kittens" sign on my van to show how approachable I am, and I always crouch down in the shadows when walking on dark streets to show that I'm no threat at all.
12/10 fully approachable gent. |
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8/9 I’d say, been told I’ve got nice eyes and live a giggle and relaxing chat |
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If the number of people who approach me at bus stops is anything to go by I'm 10 on the approachability scale.
I can have an inadvertently direct manner which sometimes makes people back off even when I don't want them to |
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Im a 1. I wear glasses so that takes me down a few notches.
Constant resting bitch face.
I use politics as an ice- breaker sometimes lol |
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I'd like to think I am pretty approachable but people have said I'm not so will go with a 5 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 3 days ago
Ankh-Morpork |
On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.
In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces |
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I'd say a 10. I'm very approachable despite a face that, I'm told says otherwise. 🤣🤣 |
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"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.
In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces "
How long have you had a cock ? |
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I think I'm a 10 and a 10, not a perfect 10, and I don't wear a 12, but I'll always try and help anyone |
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"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.
In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces "
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By *agic.MMan 3 days ago
Kent/London |
"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?
Here and normal real life world places
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How many scales do You have OP? All of them? |
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Been told I have resting bitch face and we apparently look quite intimidating as a pair 🤷🏼♀️. We are probably one the nicest couples you will meet in the lifestyle to be fair according to our veris, but we have been told by a few people in the past that we look quite intimidating before talking to us and getting to know us. When we asked why we looked intimidating they don't really have a reason why, we just are. WTF?
we don't get it. So I'd say that we are maybe a 3 in real life according to what we've been told but in reality I would say we are a 10 as we both literally talk to anyone and love to socialise. On here, as long as people have read our profile before messaging us we are always a 10 but if they don't we don't bother entertaining them.
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
"Women tend to talk to me , men not so much !? So not sure 🫤
And I dont mean that in a flash way as im irrestible before I get abuse 🤣 I mean in general
I think you're irresistible "
Thanks lol that'll get me through the rest of day lol |
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I like to think I am. Dunno how much bet there's some who say not lol |
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On here, like a 7. Real life probably a 5? Even though I want to be approachable |
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By *vaRoseWoman 3 days ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.
In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces
How long have you had a cock ?"
I’ve had this one about a year now granny
It lives on my bookshelf with a bobble hat and scarf normally |
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I think im pretty approachable both on here and in really life, I enjoy getting to know people. So im going with a 10
But what i think may not be how im perceived by others 🤷♀️ |
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By *eliWoman 3 days ago
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Away from Fab, approachable.
On here? I don't really know. |
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On fab quite approachable I think so maybe an 8/10
In real real life i’m very quiet and busy and like to keep to myself so probably a lot lower at a 5/10
At groups social or clubs we do get approached so that’s a much higher number maybe 9/10 xx 😄 |
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.
In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces "
How can anybody be intimidating on a an app ? Lol |
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10/10 my Top Trump card proves it 😁 |
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"Away from Fab, approachable.
On here? I don't really know. "
Your profile and posts here seem quite approachable to me. |
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I might look big and scary but I'm adorable so come and say hello |
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"Away from Fab, approachable.
On here? I don't really know. "
You scare the shit out of me  |
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A 9.5. Not blowing my own trumpet.
I'm approachable in real life.
There are things clients tell me that they don't tell their spouses... |
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Only for the people I want to approach me. |
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I would say both a 10 anyone I know who would say less they can all fk off 😁😁😁 |
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I’d like to think I’m easy 8+.  |
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"10 "
You are Beau Derek aren't you?  |
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By *aseylee324Couple 3 days ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
Apparently I'm scary as hell, but people often tell me how nice I am once they've braved it |
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To quote a friend-
I may "come across as a little intimidating, but that fades as soon as we get chatting"
Reach out, I do bite - playfully  |
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My former career demanded that I should be able to talk easily to people and I still possess that skill. The world's a better pla than when strangers happily chat
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you? "
I don't get the reference but I'll agree  |
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"I’d like to think I’m easy 8+. "
10 |
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I’ve been approached. So I guess I’m approachable? |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree "
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.  |
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Definitely not.. i get called smiler for a reason 😂 |
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Very consider anything or scenario |
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By *WB85Man 3 days ago
Staffordshire |
I always thought I was very approachable.
But then a few weeks back an employee of mine had a chat with my dad (who also works for me) as he wasn't sure how to approach a subject with me.
So I'm guessing maybe a 5. |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed. "
Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton. |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed. "
Oh I think phooey has got me mixed up with Bo Selecta  |
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Extremely approachable, been told by loads of people how nice I am. Some have said too nice at times. I run a memory café as a volunteer so have to be sort of approachable. I'm self deprocating though. And playfully sarcastic.
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Zero, now p**s off!
Only kidding, I think I'm very approachable..I'm smiley, chatty and hard to offend x |
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I'm a 10 at work. And an 8 out of work.
But I look like a 3.
My face says serial killer. Lol |
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I'm completely unapproachable, on here and in person...try at your peril 😂 |
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I'm very approachable, but (and this creeps up on you folks - so be warned!), all of a sudden, my age seems to have made me invisible to most.
No one warns you that you'll still feel almost exactly the same as you did 20 or 30 years before, yet you simply get classed by many as "past it".
It's certainly NOT something I expected to happen. "Make Hay" as they say.
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By *JUltraCouple 3 days ago
Chelmsford |
Mr, is a 10 out of 10. Can't leave him alone without coming back and somebody chatting to him. Babies staring and smiling at him, old people, crack heads, gay men in cowboy hats or d*unken married Irish women. Eye roll.
Mrs, would say a 7, people feel comfortable approaching and speaking.
As a couple, maybe zero. We only seem to be spoken to seperately. Which thinking about it, is kind of odd. |
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By *issEmmWoman 3 days ago
Bournemouth |
I think I’m too approachable
In life/work I’m too nice so everyone comes to me for things
On here I think because I’m chunky it gives people the impression that I’m an easy lay… spoiler I am not |
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I’d like to think I was like, a two or a three (that’s what I aim for!), but I do seem to attract randoms 🙄
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By *ib.Man 3 days ago
Hampshire |
I try not to be when just going about my day in public. |
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I never get approached out and about, despite people often smiling at me. I'm not sure if that's more out of pity, or they're simply breaking wind.
So on the basis I'd say I'm not even on the scale at all. |
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About a 4 for in person and on here. I give off don’t fucking bother vibes. Which is the opposite of what I want 😂🤦♀️ |
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I'd say a 7.. depends on the day lol |
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If 10 is totally approachable on that scale then in real life probably an 8, on here probably a 3
There’s more honesty and transparency in real life and I welcome new conversations. On here it’s mostly BS and we all know it, so I only like something I could consider ‘real’ |
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"About a 4 for in person and on here. I give off don’t fucking bother vibes. Which is the opposite of what I want 😂🤦♀️"
The Eeyore tshirt is a hint haha |
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Some days a 10 others a 1. Trouble is I don't know which way it'll go until someone trys to talk  |
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Always approachable here, in real life, on the moon but incredibly fussy and protective of my mental space. So the art of politely killing an ongoing connection or conversation is my forte
Those who get past that hurdle are cherished friends. |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.
Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton. "
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I don’t look approachable at all but I’m happy to chat to anyone. It’s a Geordie thing |
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Approachable on here? Not a clue. Someone tell me
Real life I’d like to think a good 7 |
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In real life I (Mrs) seem to be very approachable cause people tell me their life stories all the time |
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10
Friendly easy going and interested in people |
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By *avidNPMan 3 days ago
manchester |
I am definitely a 10 I’m open to meeting and chatting to anyone. My DMs are always open |
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I'm like a 10 and Sally about 8 |
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By *avidNPMan 3 days ago
manchester |
If you are a 10 does that mean your open to messages? |
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On a good day, probably 2 for both. On a bad day. Possibly one if I'm lucky.
(It helps massively if I like you - Sounding very much like Dick Emery. ) |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.
Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.
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Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣 |
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10
Friendly easy going and interested in people |
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I suffer from resting bitch face so probably a 1, but get past that in a really nice person (as long as your not an asshole) |
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I try to be but i find social situations difficult and stressful. Irl I'm much better than i am online at communicating |
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Here, I wouldn't have a clue, but I don't think I give off f-off vibes. In the real world I think my natural expression is definitely a f-off don't bother me kinda one. Doesn't stop the odd granny asking me to get things off the high selves in the supermarket though🤷♂️ |
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Me - 0
Luna - 11
But I'm actually really nice (well kinda)
Mr H |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.
Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.
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Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣"
Can you explain to me  |
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I'm a 10. I see no reason to be suspicious of people's motives when I first meet them so am inevitably open, candid and friendly by default.
I don't make the assumption they're a twat, it's up to them to show it if they are (most don't because most aren't). |
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By *lirtyFilthWoman 3 days ago
Troublesville suburb of Barnstaple |
On here? Depends on how many grains of sand are on the beach.
At work? For the students? 10/10 if not more.
At the pub? Catch me after the first pint! I’m a bundle of light, joy and happiness with a dirty laugh and mischief in my eyes 🤣🤣 |
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I'm guna say 0️⃣ because I never get approached 😳 |
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10. I've got one of those faces. Strangers come up to me and tell me things about themselves. I didn't even ask. They just talk and I listen.
I've had random people as well as forum regulars send me messages. I don't mind. |
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By *erdyHollyTV/TS 3 days ago
In a galaxy far far away |
It depends on my mood.
Normally I'm a 10 and I'm very friendly and approachable.
Sometimes when my mood is low, I'm a zero and my shields are up. When I'm like this, leave me alone until I snap out of it. |
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Absolutely I am ! It seems impossible to get a reply to any kind of message as a newbie ....how the f**k do You get verified if you're not already verified ....& I get the safety aspect 100% ! |
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Joining here has made me realise I must be a 1 |
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I’m a 10 Approachable everywhere.
Whether people choose to approach me or not is there problem ok!!! |
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Both a 10. Incredibly approachable. |
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Depends solely on the attitude of the aproacher, bad attitude 1 nice attitude 10! |
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I try to be, but I guess something about me means that no one really does approach me.
Height might be a bit too intimidating? |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.
Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.
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Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣
Can you explain to me "
Dudley Moore was in the film 10 with Bo Dereck where she ran on the beach. |
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"10
You are Beau Derek aren't you?
I don't get the reference but I'll agree
It’s a good one
Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.
Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.
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Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣
Can you explain to me
Dudley Moore was in the film 10 with Bo Dereck where she ran on the beach. "
So I've been informed. Very clever! |
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Hopefully at least a 9, but I don't know if anybody would know that until they tried. |
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By *olo180Man 3 days ago
Greater London |
In real life I’m very approachable. I often get asked where things are in the supermarket for some reason! |
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Way to chatty, so probably very approachable, though I try and put people off (especially other dog walkers). |
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
"In real life I’m very approachable. I often get asked where things are in the supermarket for some reason! "
Well if you work there there going too 🤣 its part of your job!! |
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About -5 for normal day to day interactions. I have spent a long time honing my persona to be a hatchet faced witch.
If you do get to know me, I'm mildly warmer. |
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By *olo180Man 3 days ago
Greater London |
"In real life I’m very approachable. I often get asked where things are in the supermarket for some reason!
Well if you work there there going too 🤣 its part of your job!! "
I knew I shouldn’t have worn the blue fleece in Tescos! |
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Personality 10
Looks 2 (RBF)
Being single 1 |
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Based on results;
On here I’m not sure I even hit a 1.
In the real world I must be at least a 6 as I am not infrequently approached by women. |
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By *tsazzMan 3 days ago
Manchester |
I think I’m a 7 overall 🤷♂️
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Just my opinion but i dont tend to approach couples as 9 times out of 10 they are looking for a single woman. And well single women seem to want couples so am knackered both ways
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I'm one of those who has people coming to them in the street or supermarkets and strike up conversation! A friend didn't believe me, but soon changed her mind when we went around Tescos' together and had about 7 random strangers start nattering away!
I have no idea why, but it might be that I'm non-threatening-looking. Or perhaps I have an Agony-Aunt-like quality which has people want to chat. Come to think of it, I could start some form of cult, and have acolytes do my bidding!
It's only been twice out of all those times when someone knew me from Fab, so the odds are still in my favour!!  |
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By *hortieWoman 3 days ago
Northampton |
I like to think I'm a 1. Avoid at all costs.
But other people seem to put me at a 7.
Now, either there's a LOT of brave cunts out there, or I seriously need to up my game. |
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"I like to think I'm a 1. Avoid at all costs.
But other people seem to put me at a 7.
Now, either there's a LOT of brave cunts out there, or I seriously need to up my game."
Behave you.
You're very easy to talk to.  |
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I think I'm very chatty and friendly in the real world and on fab so a 10 for me in both |
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10 on here, in the real world I will duck and dive to avoid people. So if you see me in a bush I’m not creeping 🤣 |
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By *hortieWoman 3 days ago
Northampton |
"I like to think I'm a 1. Avoid at all costs.
But other people seem to put me at a 7.
Now, either there's a LOT of brave cunts out there, or I seriously need to up my game.
Behave you.
You're very easy to talk to. "
Oh when I'm expecting it.. different story
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1. My resting bitch face only finds company and solace with others who have resting bitch faces. |
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Maybe I’m a 7 what do you think? |
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Here yes, AMA.
But in public... probably a 7 if I'm dressed up. Less otherwise.
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In everyday life hubby says he thinks he’s a 3 or 4 and Mrs he would say an 8
On here who knows. If you’ve read the profile we are a 10 approachable I reckon 😜 |
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If someone says hello I'm friendly I'll say hello etc back.
Where it falls down is my resting bitch face ha.
If I'm not smiling I look very pissed off  |
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By *mf123Man 2 days ago
with one foot out the door |
Depends on my mood but by default 4 |
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"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?
Here and normal real life world places
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9 |
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On here, I’m very approachable, so a 10, but outside of here, I’m not a fan of people, they ask stupid questions and do stupid things, so in the outside world I’d say I’m a 3 |
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By *carlettsWoman 2 days ago
Somewhere out there |
Im real life probably a 9 or 10, on here maybe 5 if lucky, think it's definately decreased over the years |
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I like to believe i'm approachable both here and in the real world. I'll chat to anyone.
I'd say i'm a 7 for both |
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Approachable yes, very
Whether or not I tell you to do one is quite another thing  |
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By *hesblokeMan 2 days ago
Derbyshire village |
I like to think I am, with the right approach at least.
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I am very approachable then probably go shy 🤭 |
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We would say about 8 but our lived experience would be 1.
I, Mr, think I'm the less approachable one. Tattoos and beard seem to put people off approaching. |
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On here no as there's so many time wasters and so much BS.
In real life I'm more so. Even though I'm a big girl. I do get approached when I'm out so I guess I must look vaguely approachable.
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"If someone says hello I'm friendly I'll say hello etc back.
Where it falls down is my resting bitch face ha.
If I'm not smiling I look very pissed off "
I have this. One of my braver colleagues once told me that unless I’m smiling I’m a scary looking person. I have to admit I was mildly hurt..but it is hard to walk around forcing a fake smile. I’d just look demented 🤪 |
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