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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't." Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back. | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back." Makes more sense I think  | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't." people seem to go the idea of BBC . But find BWC just as good . | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't." Well this is a question for us two to answer . nope . but ladies do really like the idea of both together . We get a lot of looks and enquires. And we are always happy for more . Any questions anyone ?????? do ask | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. " I love that little side note at the end. Made me chuckle. A lot of guys are disappointed now 😂 | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong the size obviously helps but for my wife it’s the colour contrast that she loves the black skin on a white body is such a turn on for her" Yes the contract. | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back." Once you go white you finally get licked right | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back. Once you go white you finally get licked right" Offended as I go down like my life depends on it and even take a spare knife and fork and bib with me to savor the flavour! | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back. Once you go white you finally get licked right Offended as I go down like my life depends on it and even take a spare knife and fork and bib with me to savor the flavour!" 😂 Lol not a bib lol, a gentleman and not a dine and dasher... I don't care in regards to race but I did find it funny when my preference changed 15 years ago. | |||
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"One of each works for me please lol" wink 😉 | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't." Well I don't have a black one | |||
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"I prefer a big one, race irrelevant I actively avoid men on here and in real life who are overly focused on race, I find it really strange" I like the sound of that . | |||
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"I prefer a big one, race irrelevant I actively avoid men on here and in real life who are overly focused on race, I find it really strange I like the sound of that . "I think we know that it's wrong to stereotype or tar everyone with the same brush, nut my lady 2 experiences have been with black men and I found it highly enjoyable. It's definitely the attitude that matters to me. Plus, a few more of the same and I'll be qualifying for a certain tattoo lol | |||
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"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white" Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some. | |||
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"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white" totally. | |||
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"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some. "Its said a lot, but don't get the contrast thing. Im not trying to be obtuse, i genuinely don't understand it. | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong the size obviously helps but for my wife it’s the colour contrast that she loves the black skin on a white body is such a turn on for her Yes the contract. " Love the contrast!!! | |||
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"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some.
Its said a lot, but don't get the contrast thing. Im not trying to be obtuse, i genuinely don't understand it. "I guess that could be said about a lot of peoples kinks and turn one though what does it for one person might do nothing for someone else 🤷♀️ | |||
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"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some.
Its said a lot, but don't get the contrast thing. Im not trying to be obtuse, i genuinely don't understand it.
I guess that could be said about a lot of peoples kinks and turn one though what does it for one person might do nothing for someone else 🤷♀️"Absolutely true - also though a big cock might look great, an average sized cock is probably more practical. | |||
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"wont be long just off to fake tan my cock 😂 " | |||
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"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some. "Certainly seems to be a popular porn category. Given the number of photos appearing on some profiles that may/may not have been 'borrowed'. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Not found a lot of guys who are BWC but there are a lot who are BBC on the scene. Also the colour contrast, girth, way most can truly pound etc" See I've found the opposite.. found that there seem to be more bwc around... and the hardest poundings as you put it have been from white guys | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. " 
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present. "Prep is supposed to be taken before sex not afterwards. Hence the name PRE-exposure prophylaxis... | |||
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"Wife doesn’t mind the colour long as vwe and can get rock hard " Drops the mic! I like this answer ⭐️ | |||
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"The contrast between skin colours is very erotic, be in black guy/white girl or vice versa also interracial girl on girl is very erotic. Going off on a tangent but we both find asian incredibly beautiful " As a decent British Asian guy with zero attitude, I find I meet more horny British white playmates than British Asian or British African-Caribbean playmates. I also find it the contrast of my chocolate into a creamy milk very horny. | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't." Well, I wouldn't know, but the colour contrast and the variety of roleplay options you can explore can be much more dynamic. | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
Prep is supposed to be taken before sex not afterwards. Hence the name PRE-exposure prophylaxis... "Can also be taken after..... | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present. "The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why | |||
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"Wife doesn’t mind the colour long as vwe and can get rock hard " That’s the answer - openly calling Black males as BBCs coz only they have one attached to their bodies really tells a lot. I lived in US, never seen such skin fetish there…we need people from South Americans here in UK..this will definitely help in removing a lot of bias and creating a balance. | |||
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"I dont find theres much difference, if there big then they are big, always comes down to how you use it, had as much fun with a tiddler as much as a whopper, im a cum queen rather than a size queen more than anything and how mig it is doesnt effect the anount of cum i find " I love cum too but some cocks can be a bit too small to proper work with | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why "I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore "Since the new year we’ve only had a few visits to clubs and the amount of guys who just don’t have any protection with them and just assume bareback is fine is shocking. She was touched in club over the weekend by a guy and she moved his hand has the week before the same one had played bareback and had nothing with him when the couple realised and told him to put something on first he had to ask other if they had a spare condom. Come on guys first thing should be to play safe unless you are told otherwise or you want to risk things. But we make a mental imprint and they won’t get a chance to with us if we’ve seen them play bareback before. Maybe clubs need more signs to remind guys of this. X | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore "Just buy it privately and event dose. Prep us cheap to buy tbh | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore
Just buy it privately and event dose. Prep us cheap to buy tbh "its not the point. I took it as an extra layer of protection but due to the fact i don't bb, I can't have it. Yet if I was being frivolous with my sexual health I could have it x | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why "Is it because they may of come from another country? Fo eg sex with a spanish person or french, hungarian..etc. Surely the colour doesnt mean anything? But links to other countries that have a higher rate of deseases? | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. " How do you view mixed heritage blokes? | |||
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"We prefer BWC to be honest especially the ones without foreskin. BBC are to aggressive and its not Shaz type of men she normally go far." What about mixed lads in terms of approach and ways of being? | |||
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"I have enjoyed both over the years and found only one bbc that i would play with again. Like others have said its not the size it how they use it. Me x" Is this different to your opinion of mixed heritage blokes? | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
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"No difference, it’s all race play! Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates. Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts. " The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks! People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc Leave them to it if all consenting adults! | |||
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"No difference, it’s all race play! Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates. Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts. The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks! People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc Leave them to it if all consenting adults!" BIG BOOBS; Yes please xxx | |||
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"No difference, it’s all race play! Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates. Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts. The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks! People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc Leave them to it if all consenting adults! BIG BOOBS; Yes please xxx" Don't objectify me, I'm more than just big boobs lol | |||
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"No difference, it’s all race play! Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates. Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts. The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks! People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc Leave them to it if all consenting adults!" Pretty much my experience in it as well | |||
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"No difference, it’s all race play! Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates. Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts. The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks! People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc Leave them to it if all consenting adults! Pretty much my experience in it as well " What's 'event' dosing of Prep? Mrs x | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. " You obviously didn't meet the right black men then. Perhaps it was you who brought it out in them. If you go for the bull type of men that's what you'll get. Black men can be amazing lovers you just need to know what you're looking for and take time to find it. All men can be amazing! We're very lucky to have the good ones. | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.
The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore
Since the new year we’ve only had a few visits to clubs and the amount of guys who just don’t have any protection with them and just assume bareback is fine is shocking. She was touched in club over the weekend by a guy and she moved his hand has the week before the same one had played bareback and had nothing with him when the couple realised and told him to put something on first he had to ask other if they had a spare condom.
Come on guys first thing should be to play safe unless you are told otherwise or you want to risk things.
But we make a mental imprint and they won’t get a chance to with us if we’ve seen them play bareback before.
Maybe clubs need more signs to remind guys of this. X"If I'm at a club with a partner and a guy asks for a spare condom that tells me everything I need to know. All possibilty of play ends at that point. | |||
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"Have I won yet? 🏆 " afraid not chap ,, but you are in the toppy 10 | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't." Sizewise and how it feels inside - no difference Black guys tend to be more dominant, white guys more creative (generally). YMMV | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. " Totally agree large cocks don't do it for me, they usually seem to only have that going for them and they don't know how to use it!! I know that is not everyone I'm not tainting all with same brush. I enjoy a normal size that fits and hits the spot | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Sizewise and how it feels inside - no difference Black guys tend to be more dominant, white guys more creative (generally). YMMV" What about men of mixed heritage? | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. " | |||
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"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me! As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.
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"I love cock, as long as it’s attached to a fun, respectful, sexually imaginative and dirty minded person. Couldn’t care less if it’s big/ small/ black/ white. Also, on the whole “contrast” love thing, if that’s the case, why aren’t Black women admired for the same thing within the lifestyle?" You raise the question we were going to ask 🤔 | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back. Once you go white you finally get licked right Offended as I go down like my life depends on it and even take a spare knife and fork and bib with me to savor the flavour! 😂 Lol not a bib lol, a gentleman and not a dine and dasher... I don't care in regards to race but I did find it funny when my preference changed 15 years ago." OMFG my biggest weakness is sexy black women who crave both black and white cock. In fact this applies to other women too. It's way more fun being with a woman who doesn't just restrict herself to one or the other....more for us both to suck together then | |||
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"I love cock, as long as it’s attached to a fun, respectful, sexually imaginative and dirty minded person. Couldn’t care less if it’s big/ small/ black/ white. Also, on the whole “contrast” love thing, if that’s the case, why aren’t Black women admired for the same thing within the lifestyle?" In my case they most certainly are. It's my go to for interracial porn | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back." Yeah..great. That very statement blows the " size doesn't matter" out of the window. Which i always knew It's like having the skill of driving a rally car with a poxy 1 litre KIA  | |||
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"There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted..I understand desensitivity to a guy & not caring in the moment but whats a girls excuse? I also seen comments about guys with big cocks having an attitude..actually the guys that are small claim to be doms bulls and hung..and crap people. Hung men are usually more normal!" Are you seriously blaming women for the spread of sexual diseases? I should be surprised but I’m actually not 😒 It’s not a woman’s responsibility to protect men. Everyone should be responsible for their own sexual health and protecting themselves | |||
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"There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted..I understand desensitivity to a guy & not caring in the moment but whats a girls excuse? I also seen comments about guys with big cocks having an attitude..actually the guys that are small claim to be doms bulls and hung..and crap people. Hung men are usually more normal! Are you seriously blaming women for the spread of sexual diseases? I should be surprised but I’m actually not 😒 It’s not a woman’s responsibility to protect men. Everyone should be responsible for their own sexual health and protecting themselves " Well said it’s everyone’s responsibility | |||
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"There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted.. " So it is a womans fault if anyone gets HIV? | |||
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"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading. No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??" What protection can women use for safe sex? | |||
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"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading. No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??" But why just single out women? If everyone used protection then it would lower the risk/stop spreading | |||
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"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading. No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection?? But why just single out women? If everyone used protection then it would lower the risk/stop spreading " I sigled out Women who claim men of colour are hiv risks and reduse to sleep with them now.. A woman can supply a condom or tell the male to wear one? That would help? | |||
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"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading. No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection?? What protection can women use for safe sex? " A bag over her head and a condom. | |||
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"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading. No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection?? But why just single out women? If everyone used protection then it would lower the risk/stop spreading I sigled out Women who claim men of colour are hiv risks and reduse to sleep with them now.. A woman can supply a condom or tell the male to wear one? That would help?" Why is it a woman’s responsibility to supply condoms to other people? Yes we always have condoms whether at a club or meeting privately but we do also expect the other party to also have brought their own isn’t that just common courtesy? | |||
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" A woman can supply a condom or tell the male to wear one? That would help? " Would the man not be aware about safe sex and to use a condom? | |||
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"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading. No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection?? What protection can women use for safe sex? A bag over her head and a condom. " To be fair the condoms do stretch with water to go that big when they are being tested but I don't think a condom over a womans head will help with safe sex | |||
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"Were all supposed to be adults in a swinging lifestyle. If as a man you can't turn up with condoms, you're a bit thick really. Also ask yourself, would you rely on a condom given to you by someone else? I know mine havent been tampered with." More fun if they fit correctly to, so I bring my own if they're to be used | |||
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"Are u insane? Expecting a male to turn up with condoms and blaming them instead of having some your self is outragious and is not taking responsibility. I did not mean a condom on your head I meant on his Penis..this is why things get spreading and Women blame men. Its both their responsibility if your going to say silly things like acting like a mans mother offering protection..something is going wrong. You obviously think a Man should supply a condom not a Woman. If a Woman dont have a condom she should never have sex!" I am not sure which person you are answering here because if all of it is to me you are putting words into my mouth. I just followed your lead with the silly bit after you said put a paper bag over a womans head.
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We are responsible for our own sexual health. A man shouldn't be told to use a condom or how to use it, nor should he need help to put it on. It is his responsibilty to protect himself if he wants to practise safe sex.
A woman doesn't use an aid to have safe sex so if she is wanting safe sex ( or safer sex as they are not 100% safe ) then she would need to make sure there was a condom being used by the male and that it wasn't out of date.
We used to have our own supply to use and I am sure there must be women who do this too but I would expect a man to supply his own.
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" Why is it a woman’s responsibility to supply condoms to other people? Yes we always have condoms whether at a club or meeting privately but we do also expect the other party to also have brought their own isn’t that just common courtesy?" I always have my own condoms with me, after ‘incidents’ over the years; All condoms aren’t the same size, neither do cocks come in standardised sizes, so as far as I’m concerned, having condoms which fit me comfortably are as much about my pleasure, as they are my sexual health… I once took advantage of the free condoms available in a swinger club, and regretted the rash they gave me afterwards! The irony of getting a rash on your cock by using condoms….. can laugh about it now 
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"Are u insane? Expecting a male to turn up with condoms and blaming them instead of having some your self is outragious and is not taking responsibility. I did not mean a condom on your head I meant on his Penis..this is why things get spreading and Women blame men. Its both their responsibility if your going to say silly things like acting like a mans mother offering protection..something is going wrong. You obviously think a Man should supply a condom not a Woman. If a Woman dont have a condom she should never have sex! I am not sure which person you are answering here because if all of it is to me you are putting words into my mouth. I just followed your lead with the silly bit after you said put a paper bag over a womans head.
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We are responsible for our own sexual health. A man shouldn't be told to use a condom or how to use it, nor should he need help to put it on. It is his responsibilty to protect himself if he wants to practise safe sex.
A woman doesn't use an aid to have safe sex so if she is wanting safe sex ( or safer sex as they are not 100% safe ) then she would need to make sure there was a condom being used by the male and that it wasn't out of date.
We used to have our own supply to use and I am sure there must be women who do this too but I would expect a man to supply his own.
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"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! "Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x | |||
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"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x"So if a guy has an STI as long as he wears a condom your letting him fuck you and I assume sucking his dick bare ? | |||
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"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x
So if a guy has an STI as long as he wears a condom your letting him fuck you and I assume sucking his dick bare ? "No of course not, that's why we use SH24 and expect playmates to test to. So how do you know a guy who's wearing a condom hasn't got an STI unless you test? The answer is you don't. I was merely pointing out that in this case a condom is providing some form of protection, not 100% but some. Nothing, testing or condoms is totally safe, you just have to find a level of 'safety' you are comfortable with that's all, Mrs x | |||
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"You are not the only woman to say this, my last meeting was a 40 year old black goddess, she said she would never meet another black guy because of the attitude, and one guy wouldn't slow down when she asked and it took her ages to get over the bruising." who is the 40 year old black goddess, love to meet her | |||
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"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't. Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person. Mrs x Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified. So how are they objectified here? Mrs x A big cock is a big cock. Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock. It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone. Exactly this. If you think that you can justify a contrast between skin colour is just a preference and not you objectively making a judgement into a kink that is based on race and ethnicity then you’re probably quite unaware that you are possibly unconsciously aware that you could be seen having negative thoughts about race? I think there is definitely something deeply wrong and inappropriate feelings with white cuckold couples that actively seek out dominant bbc bulls……Because racists obviously do 'nice' things with those they are racist about, makes perfect sense haha, Mrs x" Never thought that these “nice things” come with a weird dynamic of a power play dominant and slightly sinister nature? White sluts and big black studs? Maybe not for everyone but some people do enjoy a very odd interpretation when they fetishise or objectify a person into a kink. | |||
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