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"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon
Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx"
Of course, cumming in a condom is an awful waste lol |
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By *leetwo OP Couple 7 weeks ago
Cleethorpes |
"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon
Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx
Of course, cumming in a condom is an awful waste lol "
Haha your right it is xx |
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For me as a penis owner, it carry my own. I believe it’s part of swinging etiquette for the penis owner to carry the condoms. The ones I use, I’m used to, I know fit me, and haven’t been banging around at the bottom of a play bag for months. My wife Kittydagger believes everyone wanting penetration during sex should carry them. I see her point! But for me it’s the person with the penis that is more responsible. |
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"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon
Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx
Of course, cumming in a condom is an awful waste lol
Haha your right it is xx"
I rarely do, normally cum on tits, arse or face! Receivers choice! |
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By *leetwo OP Couple 7 weeks ago
Cleethorpes |
"We have only just started the club scene and although normally we play bare when we meet couples, usually we have chatted for a good while 1st, we would expect to mainly need to play safe a clubs"
That is understandable and sensible as it’s definitely better without them but it’s a must to feel comfortable that there ok to do that with xx |
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Condoms should always be used. If someone doesn’t carry them then that has to be a huge red flag.
To those who demand that theirs be used - I wouldn’t do that. It is very unlikely that they would fit properly and unless they fit properly it is just increasing the risk. |
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"We have only just started the club scene and although normally we play bare when we meet couples, usually we have chatted for a good while 1st, we would expect to mainly need to play safe a clubs
That is understandable and sensible as it’s definitely better without them but it’s a must to feel comfortable that there ok to do that with xx"
Absolutely everyone must feel it is what they want or it will not work well. Janine loves to feel a guy explode in her and I love to explode in another lady |
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It's a tough one, on the same basis, people want you to use theirs, can be the same reason I would like to use my own, I know they are in date, fit well and have not been tampered with. If there are issues with latex allergies etc then it is different story then.
The point is everyone is different and there are two sides to a story.
Would I use one someone has given me, yes, but if the choice is there, I would be using my own. |
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I wont use anyone else's. The best way to protect myself is so use something I've sourced myself and know hasn't been tampered with.
And from a fitment perspective, I know what works best for me.
Those demanding you use theirs, it isn't gonna happen. |
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We're only going to be using condoms that we provide due to Ess's interesting allergy/comfort situation.
Although we've never met anyone who didn't offer to use their own, which is greatly appreciated!
It's the offering that counts, and by having them on your person, it shows a level of personal responsibility and prior planning
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However if there's size/ fitment/ other issues at play that make ours unworkable, then we would obviously discuss between everyone and come up with a plan.
After all communication is important in any sexual encounter!
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We would always use condoms in a club meet, no exceptions ever. In private meets you have a chance to get to know a person a bit, see their test results and perhaps meet a few times with condom and eventually play bare. No condom feels much better so it’s the preference but needs to be managed and compared to risk of catching any nasty infections. |
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"When me and my ex went to Townhouse we carried condoms with us and insisted they use ours, surely nobody is that reckless
Lots are from what we have seen many play without xx"
Have you not considered those are long term partners that play bare in a club? I am not going to expect my partner to put a condom on just because we are in a club.
With anyone random, if they're not willing to glove up, they are not going inside me, though most of the time, I prefer no penetration with a random guy in a club. And I prefer to use my own condoms as then it's the brand I like and trust, one that does not cause me any discomfort afterwards. Some of the cheap ones, my body doesn't like them. |
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"Condoms should always be used. If someone doesn’t carry them then that has to be a huge red flag.
To those who demand that theirs be used - I wouldn’t do that. It is very unlikely that they would fit properly and unless they fit properly it is just increasing the risk."
we always insist and have various sizes... I need latex free...
That's why we insist on our own... if a guy has his own latex free then we would be okay with that. We are never tempted to play bare..that's something strictly for each other x |
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By *abioMan 7 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
Why would you ever jump in a puddle if you were not wearing wellies!
The only person who can look after your own health is you…. And it’s about weighing up risks (before people shout “but you don’t use them for oral” )
If you are “that person “ who when they say condom you look around at all the other guys as to say “can I have one of yours!” (And yes it does happen) you are an idiot!
Second only to the guy who only goes around with one condom, keeps it on and expects to go from person to person! (Yes! Seen that happen, nasty fucker!)
Piss poor preparation….. piss poor preformance! |
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"For me as a penis owner, it carry my own. I believe it’s part of swinging etiquette for the penis owner to carry the condoms. The ones I use, I’m used to, I know fit me, and haven’t been banging around at the bottom of a play bag for months. My wife Kittydagger believes everyone wanting penetration during sex should carry them. I see her point! But for me it’s the person with the penis that is more responsible. "
You're right of course, but as someone who receives a penis I always carry them. That way at least one of us has them & I can insist. |
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By *_Mia_XTV/TS 7 weeks ago
Ilkeston |
"For me as a penis owner, it carry my own. I believe it’s part of swinging etiquette for the penis owner to carry the condoms. The ones I use, I’m used to, I know fit me, and haven’t been banging around at the bottom of a play bag for months. My wife Kittydagger believes everyone wanting penetration during sex should carry them. I see her point! But for me it’s the person with the penis that is more responsible.
You're right of course, but as someone who receives a penis I always carry them. That way at least one of us has them & I can insist."
Agreed as the number of people who dont carry them and look at you to provide is crazy |
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If you are “that person “ who when they say condom you look around at all the other guys as to say “can I have one of yours!” (And yes it does happen) you are an idiot!
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I was at a party once and someone asked that question. He kept giving it the chat about his size. He was given a king size. To say the fit was wrong would be an understatement. Apparently he wasn’t the size he thought he was. It looked like a baggy jumper on him. He left almost straight away after that  |
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I even put them on my strap on dildos especially if they're going to be used on more than one person...
I think it's about the indication of a clear intention to use one by having your own supplies. Some of our regular friends do tend to be on the larger side so having their own to ensure fit is essential...in a club, or at a party we would always rather use our own because we prefer latex free but like to see people who come prepared too...
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We've had guys only having 1 condom
So we're then thinking , climb on , pump away , shoot your load , and then your off ?
We go through lots , and we mean lots , on a play meet
We have a play bag full , and expect them to be used |
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I take my own,latex free, in sizes regular and large. I keep about 10 in my kit bag. Not because I intend to fuck 10 cocks (although nothing wrong with that), but because you might pause, restart, swap between people, use toys etc etc - all reasons to need another one. I'd rather be over prepared than need one and not have it!
I also bring latex free gloves too.
If a guy had no condoms with him,I'd likely think twice about playing because I'd have concerns about an elevated risk level. |
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We always play safe. Normally we would expect the guy to provide his own, mainly as he’ll know what fits him.
However, we both carry them and also have vegan & latex free ones, as some of our friends are vegan and/or have allergies, as has been mentioned above. |
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"I take my own,latex free, in sizes regular and large. I keep about 10 in my kit bag. Not because I intend to fuck 10 cocks (although nothing wrong with that), but because you might pause, restart, swap between people, use toys etc etc - all reasons to need another one. I'd rather be over prepared than need one and not have it!
I also bring latex free gloves too.
If a guy had no condoms with him,I'd likely think twice about playing because I'd have concerns about an elevated risk level. "
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"What’s everyone’s views? "
So much can be caught from oral sex alone it makes you wonder what use condoms are at all other than to help prevent pregnancy. Chlamydia, syphilis, genital warts, herpes, gonorrhoea etc all passed via oral (NHS website). Something is better than nothing I suppose but much better to limit sexual contact to a chosen few regular friends as we do, hence nothing these days lol  |
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We're open to fucking bare with couples but not as a matter of course. In a club specifically we'd be far more inclined to use condoms as you don't know who else somebody has be with that night.
Yes, some might say 'what about who else they've been with in the last week or month'. Those same people probably swing even less than we get chance to which is the real irony. Not everybody is full swapping every weekend ffs. |
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"We're open to fucking bare with couples but not as a matter of course. In a club specifically we'd be far more inclined to use condoms as you don't know who else somebody has be with that night.
Yes, some might say 'what about who else they've been with in the last week or month'. Those same people probably swing even less than we get chance to which is the real irony. Not everybody is full swapping every weekend ffs."
We usually play babe but would play safe in a club. We don’t meet often as playing bare obviously carries increased risk of having several partners in a short time period |
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By *enelope2UWoman 6 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
"When me and my ex went to Townhouse we carried condoms with us and insisted they use ours, surely nobody is that reckless
Lots are from what we have seen many play without xx"
No less reckless than fucking someone solely on looks alone.. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 6 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
"What’s everyone’s views?
So much can be caught from oral sex alone it makes you wonder what use condoms are at all other than to help prevent pregnancy. Chlamydia, syphilis, genital warts, herpes, gonorrhoea etc all passed via oral (NHS website). Something is better than nothing I suppose but much better to limit sexual contact to a chosen few regular friends as we do, hence nothing these days lol "
Exactly this...giving BJ's and eating ass or pussy ABD kissing yet drown at someone fucking bare... Same diseases are swapped in both instances so no one is mightier than the next... I don't play bare but I don't kiss or do BJs to strangers either.. |
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"I think its each to own, def think its rude if they dont bri g condoms, i do prefer bare, but always have a condom on me, although if guy doesnt want yo play bare ill tell them to cum on me"
Playing bare is not safe...even if they don't cum inside you. Pre-cum carries viruses too |
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"What’s everyone’s views?
So much can be caught from oral sex alone it makes you wonder what use condoms are at all other than to help prevent pregnancy. Chlamydia, syphilis, genital warts, herpes, gonorrhoea etc all passed via oral (NHS website). Something is better than nothing I suppose but much better to limit sexual contact to a chosen few regular friends as we do, hence nothing these days lol
Exactly this...giving BJ's and eating ass or pussy ABD kissing yet drown at someone fucking bare... Same diseases are swapped in both instances so no one is mightier than the next... I don't play bare but I don't kiss or do BJs to strangers either.."
kissing and oral are considerably lower risk though.. I'm way into the thousands of guys I've sucked without a condom over my 30 odd years as a swinger... often 3 figures a week in my hey day.. but have always had negative tests.. yes I'm aware that there are risks.... but the only safe sex is no sex xxx
So I choose to use condoms for full sex and do oral without. I don't really kiss anyway |
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I always knit mine the day before so they are fresh!
No serisously, when in a club, i always have a condom with me. Although towels dont have pockets so im worried about what message it sends naked under a towel condom in hand...
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" Although towels dont have pockets so im worried about what message it sends naked under a towel condom in hand...
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You can buy a band with a zipped pocket that goes round your wrist. Runners use them for keeping their keys in. Perfect for condoms. |
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By *appyDays64Man 5 weeks ago
Yorkshire or Lincolnshire |
"Always safe...
You ever tempted to play bare? Xx"
Everyone prefers bare.. it boils down to trust if not using condoms. Always take them to clubs as often it's sex with complete strangers.. I have played bare in a club but only as I previously knee the lady.. |
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